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Thoughts on Privilege and Service

2/17/2015

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I recently asked one of my roommates, “If you could travel to every country in the world and ask a US citizen in each one the same question, what would it be?” He had an interesting response, “To whom do you owe a duty?” Beside the perfect prepositional usage, it made me think about all the people to whom I owe a duty: family, friends, school, work, society, etc.

I know enough about the world to know that the privilege I have in life is immense. As someone who studies global poverty in my current Masters program, it can really be quite overwhelming to think about. I’m white, male, and a US citizen. On top of that, I grew up in the suburbs of Seattle—one of the richest and most well educated cities in the world. I have two bachelors degrees, one in Economics and the other in International Studies, and thankfully I have never needed student loans to pay for them. I have traveled to almost thirty different countries and lived across three different continents. All this compared to the lives of two billion people who struggle to survive on not much more than a dollar a day (as simplistic as this measure might be). For me, grappling with this disparity is a struggle.


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When I first moved to Washington, DC almost two years ago, I started a job at the World Bank just a few blocks from the White House on Pennsylvania Avenue, and it only added fuel to the fire. I decided to return to school to study International Development as a way to try wrapping my head around these issues. I’m now studying on a full-ride scholarship at American University’s School of International Service— currently ranked the 8th best international relations schools in the world, and founded by Dwight Eisenhower to “wage peace” around the world.

A solution that would keep me grounded while in school has been to volunteer regularly with people who don’t have the same kind of privileges I do. Sadly, in our nation’s capital I don’t have to go far. Each weekend, I do my best to take the short metro ride to southeast D.C. to help work at a drop-in office for homeless youth. Before I could start volunteering, I had to attend an orientation required by the non-profit, which helps prepare you by explaining the background of the homeless youth that they serve. The numbers can be quite shocking: 75% don’t go to school, 50% have been physically abused, 20% sexual abused by someone in their family, 20-40% of homeless youth identify as LGBTQ, and a full two thirds are never reported missing by their parents.  These numbers are all rough estimates because it is difficult to effectively survey homeless kids, but they help give you a sense of the interactions you will have with the kids.

I remember when I first started volunteering, a group of kids stumbled into the already full room to rummage through the snacks, hygiene packs, and extra clothes we supply. One preteen sat down across from me with a troubled look on his face, and so I started asking him some basic questions about his day.

Something about my mannerisms and my long hair must have tipped him off, and he surprised me by asking point blank, “Are you gay?”

“No.” I responded reflexively. Though true, I immediately wished my response had been more nuanced.

I could see the confusion on his face, and, before I could think of the best way keep him talking, he was swept back into a conversation with his friends, and I had to help someone else that had a question. I have no idea what became of that child, but I do know that he is only one amongst many.

Besides staffing the drop-in office, another volunteer role is walking the streets in the neighborhood to encourage homeless youth to come in to the office. Sadly, walking around the streets of southeast DC reminds me a lot of cities in Central America. However, one is the capital of the richest country on the planet, and the other is one of the poorest regions in the world. As a policy student, I think it really doesn’t take a genius to understand how US politics maintain the status quo in both cases, and I can’t help but think how rotten our society is to allow such depravity to continue.

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In conclusion, volunteering in DC has taught me a few things. The first is that you do not need to go to the other side of the world to find violence and extreme poverty. Second, if you think this country is developed, you live in a bubble. Lastly, there are an amazingly large amount of people who are passionately committed to making this country and the world a better place.

My question I would then pose to the reader is: “To whom do you owe a duty and how do you live that out?”

Next week, I am excited to introduce a new contributor to our blog—our Director of Communications Timothy Kurek! He will be introducing his background and his goal in Developing America of stepping into the shoes of the other.

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Tania
2/15/2015 02:41:39 am

Thanks for your service, Lucas! I also owe duty to the communities in which I live. Like you, I offer this duty through volunteer work and advocacy. As expats, we gain great personal benefit from living abroad and taking in new experiences that shape our world views, so it is only right that we serve, not what we think the community needs, but what it actually needs. We can only do this through getting to know these communities, gaining an understanding of their cultural intricacies, and working in concert with the local population to create sustainable and empathetic change. Keep up the great work!

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Lucas
2/15/2015 05:13:51 am

Thanks, Tania for the wise words. I think what you say about helping communities with what they actually need, not what we might think they need is essential. In development work, this issue is rife, and it is quite hard to get around. I think through the medium of video there are great opportunities to help people communicate their voice directly to the policy makers that end up making the decisions that shape their lives.

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Nadia Nash link
2/15/2015 12:22:13 pm

First of all...thank you so much for all that you are and all that you do!! The world would be a better place for all of us to live, if there were more people like you!!! While reading this post, I was reminded that no matter where we are in life, we all have the opportunity to give back...even if all we have to give is a smile or kind word. Although the life that I have lived has not been one of privilege, I too feel the overwhelming desire to step outside of my own world, and help others!!! I am even more inspired when reading things like this, and knowing that no matter what walk in life we come from, there are others that are willing to unite and join together to make a difference!! Thank you Lucas!! 💙

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Lucas
2/15/2015 12:31:40 pm

Nadia, thank you so much for your kind words. I think you are right that we all have the opportunity to give back, and my hope in writing this article was to connect with people just like you! I'm inspired knowing you are inspired, and I hope we can join together to help make a positive difference in the world! Keep following us on the site, we have lots of new content coming your way!!

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Tyler
2/16/2015 01:44:52 am

Lucas-

Great thoughts on solidarity and responsibility. I recently read a homily from Pope Francis on solidarity which seems appropriate. Francis says "The word “solidarity” is a little worn and at times poorly understood, but it refers to something more than a few sporadic acts of generosity. It presumes the creation of a new mindset which thinks in terms of community and the priority of the life of all over the appropriation of goods by a few." Best of luck in developing your own vision- you will surely inspire others along the way.

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Lucas
2/17/2015 01:58:10 am

Thanks for your thoughts. I think that you (or the pope) are right that solidarity is much more than just a few sporadic acts. I think the role of accompaniment is also extremely important. I would therefore advocate first and foremost for a shared vision for the future--one that most importantly includes the voices of the most marginalized in society and one that therefore advocates for structural change.

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Gulichi
2/16/2015 08:27:37 am

To be honest, I agree with author that born in nice family in US, especially in a nice city like Seattle and being a white male is very lucky, much luckier than many people who were born in the developing world. But it's great to see you are a really caring person and always want to help people. Being a person who's from the third world and also not white, I've seen a lot of my fellows when they finally got a better living standard they would like to live a material life instead of helping others. Maybe because they have made a lot of efforts then they can live a life that a lot of people in the developed world could already live when they were born, so they may think they don't have duty and energy to care about others..
I think the duty I owe is to my parents. They spent their whole life savings to support me study in this country. Only when I finally repay them I'll start doing something to help more people in need.

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Lucas
2/17/2015 02:08:04 am

Gulichi, thanks for sharing your experiences. One of my largest fears has been to work hard to establish myself and think that therefore I don't have the duty or energy to care about others anymore if it comes at the expense of my own position. I see it much too often here in DC. Hence, this project! I would hope to build my career around helping people who need it most and giving a voice to the marginalized.

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Coco
2/17/2015 11:51:20 pm

Your journey, thus far, Lucas, has clearly been about love and directing that love to places that rarely see the light, especially the light that comes from great privilege. You are an inspiration and a reminder that we all owe a duty to everyone that our lives touch---a reminder that finding our better selves by loving one another, not only serve to better our experience of life but that of our community and, therefore, the world.

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Lucas
2/20/2015 11:13:40 am

You are too kind. If I have learned anything from life it has been from listening to people I have met along the way far wiser than myself ;)

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